I have seen my closest friends and family being in a relationship with someone. They all have different stories. Some love to be always in a relationship, can not stand to be single. Some love to be in a on-off relationship, break-ups easily, being together again so easy like blinking your eyes. Some love to play hard to get and make sure everything is right. Some love to play easy to get and just change partners like changing cloths. They are all different.
I can not say which one is right and which one is wrong, I am not here for that. I just wanna see it in different angle. I think that when someone in a relationship, you have to consider a lot of things. Are you happy with the relationship? Are you happy with your partner? Are you the real you in that relationship? Or are you pretending to be someone you are not? Does the relationship change you? For good? For bad? Are you still the same person that everyone knows? Does the relationship keep you a distance from your beloved friends or family?
The point is when your are in the real relationship, you don't have to change who you are, you don't have to change a thing. It won't make you uncomfortable if you're being yourself. It won't keep you a distance from your friends and family. That real relationship will make you shining bright and make you as close as you can with your love ones like never before. Because if you feel the opposite then you have to question your relationship, is it for real?
Because after all family and your true friends are the one who will be there for you, even on your worst. So if that person makes you trade your precious one, is that person really the one? Because when you trade everything you have just to get your only one, you better make sure that they're the one or you'll end up having nothing if you lose them. Exclusive relationship doesn't always have to draw you apart from everyone.
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