Gentlemen

Men might think that women is a demanding creature but from women's perspective, it's common sense. Looks like these two creatures don't really get along, do they? Well, if women think what they ask is a common thing then indirectly saying men are brainless a.k.a have no common sense?

Is it hard to be a gentlemen? Well, if men demand their partner to be lady-like, why can't they be gentlemen in return? There is no certain steps 'how to be a gentlemen', but sure people have pattern, standard and expectation. But why is it normal for men to be douchebag while it's outrageous for women to do so? Such an excuse not to be gentlemen.

It's not about how to get gentlemen's look. You can have the look but more important is what's coming out of you. It can be manners, attitudes, behaviours, the most important above all is your words. If man cannot keep his words, he absolutely needs a hit in the head. It's about being confident, consistent and persistent. Confident means know what you're doing, consistent means stick to what you're saying, persistent means keep fighting for it. Say what you want and mean it, if you don't mean it then don't say it. One principle of communication is that communication is irreversible. You can have thousands reasons to take back what you've said but once you've delivered your message clearly in the first place then basically it's out there, cannot take it back no matter how hard you try.

"Sometimes we're scared of reality that's why we put it into a joke hoping for different answer." Joke is joke, you can joke around like crazy but that principle of communication applies every time you communicate. Words cut deeper than sword, gentlemen. And keep in mind, no one remember when you're right and no one forget when you're wrong.

Rated: (M) for mature audience

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