Gloomy Christmas Eve? Checked!

When everything is all about recognition. I have this, I have that, I have everything. What do you want from showing that? Recognition? Really? Something better than recognition for sure. Everyone has their own judgement. They have their own values. They have their own thought. You can not please everyone. You can not satisfy everyone. But you can please and satisfy yourself. At least your own self.

Yes, we live in this world. We have to consider others but we don't have a responsibility to make them understand us. This is our life, our shot. Be happy while you can. Be merry as long as you don't hurt anyone. They don't care when we're f*cked up, why do they care when we're happy? Because they're jealous. So live your life, make them jealous even more.

We get the pain, the judgement all the time, so please for once, give yourself a break. Let it be. Sometimes we need to learn in a hard way to make us strong. Strong enough to face the storm of judgement from other people. As long as you enjoy your life, happy with yourself and grateful with what you've got, you live your life!

Just broke up? It's painful but this is it, the time that open you eyes to see the truth, it's ugly but that's the truth. Get a new one! People say it's rebound, please ignore them. This is your time for being single and very happy! Party hard! On the party, some guys are flirting with you, be proud and confident. Go for it if you like it, "but they might think I'm a b*tch". Just forget them, they can not see their own flaws.

So in this happy moment, just be happy! We can not ask them to stop judging but we can let our self out there and be what we wanna to be. I just wanna say "Merry Christmas, everyone!" This year has been a long journey, let's wrap it up with joy and start the new upcoming year with smile and say "I did it! So New Year? Bring it on!" Last but not least:
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow."
There will always a brighter tomorrow.

#wishing everyone the best

-vc-