Q: How old are you?
A: 24
I am 24 years old indeed. Never thought that I am gonna be this old but time flies. I am old. What happen when you reach mid twenties? Well, you should've had proper job, career and maybe settling down, all grown-up's stuffs. And last but not least, FAMILY.
Start a family? Yes! That's the one. Most of my friends got married, some of them have kids. They live their life. I never thought about this thing ever before. I am a selfish b*tch. I always think how I can have good job, great career, house, cars, everything and then enjoy my life by traveling around the world and maybe adopt a kid. I never thought that someone will ever ask me this question but finally it popped out:
"When are u getting married?"
Wow! I am amazed. I am stunted. And apparently the question is not from my mom.
Is the pressure on now? Well, don't really care. It's not my priority. And we all have to realize that marriage isn't a playground, because marriage is a commitment of a lifetime. So better not rushing things and make you life miserable with divorce and stay live your life to the fullest even when you are single.
#single and very happy
-vc-
Too true... to get married just because of people pressuring or because it's "something you always wanted" is not the right reason.
ReplyDeleteIt should come naturally.
Don't put a pressure on yourself honey! Especially if it's from someone else, not from yourself.
ReplyDeleteLike, what do they know about you?
It might be just a casual question ppl ask..
Single is not bad, single is not the end of the world.
Like what carrie bradshaw's line in sex and the city says, "single and fabulous!"
;)
Xoxo